Monday, May 22, 2006

Why is life so complicated?????

I guess if there was an easy answer to this question, it wouldn't be much of a question huh? I don't know how to go into more detail. Just put it this way...ex (high school sweetheart) vs husband (cheated on me, but now all of a sudden wants to make it work out). Now I don't know what to do, I thought I knew but now I am confused. help help help

3 comments:

Chari-Dee said...

Your hubby cheated on you while on deployment? Is that why he hadn't called for a few days?

Whatever the case may be ((((((hugs)))))) it sounds like you are in an extremely difficult situation. I wish I had some wise words to pass along, but unfortunately, this sounds like a situation where the ultimate choice is yours. Maybe - Neither, while you sort through it all?

Take Care and I wish you the best of luck

Kel~ said...

Actually, I caught my husband in November...since then it has been battle after battle...now that he is on deployment, he wants to make things up to me...while here I sit in my hometown with my high school sweetheart emailing me and checking up on me. He's really a great guy, both of them, other than the cheating. I could be a Crusie story. :) Thanks for the hugs.

dee said...

Hey!!
You'd better not be texting him, or I'm gonna call Verizon and disable your test service!
I'm giving you unsolicited advice. As always, feel free to say "Piss off", ok?
You knew that jerkoff cheated. You didn't want to get divorced. You wanted to work things out. You waited until he wanted to work things out too. Now he's over 'there', and he's thinking things are going ok.
You've got knucklehead there in Smalltown USA that's decided he wants to get back together with you, AFTER 10 YEARS. He-llooooo? I don't think so.
You wanted to work things out with your man. You knew he was a jerk, but you still wanted to work things out.
So, if you're considering going back to the knucklehead, then you need to end things with the jerkoff.
Of course, I'm not gonna tell you which one I prefer. I have a feeling you already know that. If you don't, we'll discuss it over a bottle of wine and some tater chips this weekend!